reposted from femenins
For the men of my generation, it's nearly impossible to be a "company man" even if you want to be: the company won't commit! Many of us long for the kind of relationships our fathers and grandfathers had with their employers, which, through unionization, was often long-standing and remunerative.
Within the schema of US patriarchy, however, such ties were also bound to a prescribed manhood. Although the US economic picture has changed dramatically since the 1970s, this "prescription for manhood" still weighs on younger men today; after all, we learned it from our elders!
The fact that many men can no longer simply be "an engineer," "a truck driver," or "a scientist" and look forward to a future full of promotions, raises, and a pension means that our assigned role as "provider" is in jeopardy.
This is significant because the model of manhood that we know basically tells us that as long as the "provider" role is fulfilled, the rest of our lives will fall into place. As long as we can announce our significance by identifying who we work for, and plausibly argue that we benefit by it, then the rest of our lives can be "boys will be boys." We don't need to be interrupted during the big game, we can retreat to our "man cave," and we can expect that women will more or less take care of everything else.
What I observe among many of my peers is an aching desire to plug into any external authority that will let them sustain this pretense about who they are supposed to be. But Wall Street is not having any of it; the men it wants come from the global South. Jobs follow the money and men follow the jobs. But US men can't become associated with desperate immigrants and ever believe themselves worthy of the rewards of patriarchy. This informs a growing conflict between them.
Men increasingly view themselves as failures, or as oscillating between successive modes of failure. This is an extremely dangerous scenario, which plays itself out in all kinds of ways, though usually as violence towards those with whom men are most intimate.
If young men are a mess, acting out in self-destructive ways, we should think about the promises of patriarchy that are made in exchange for subservience in the workplace, and how US men are being frustrated along these lines in both their opportunities and rewards.
Thursday, September 30, 2010
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Dig it!
I think about similar stuff sometimes. I am restless and don't want to be tied to any particular role, so the indefinite nature doesn't affect me, but I see it among friends and among the families I work with.
I have held many jobs since HS: ski shop employee, gas station worker from the days of full service, bakery employee, REI floor staff, researcher, environmental planner, lawyer, judge's law clerk, writer/editor, and now I'm a $12/hr "support specialist".
Generally I am a hypercurious person so I am quickly bored by lots of jobs. There aren't many types of work where you can always be mastering things, always improving. When I pumped gas, the top limit of performing my job tasks arrived within the first month, probably actually the first week -- and the longest learning process was the human interaction skills, not the job's manual skill demands. Other jobs have been likewise.
I think the thing that humans need from their work is a sense of meaning, or some might call it "personal identity" or "personal fulfillment." You hit on that nicely here.
I would like to see the present economic collapse/squeeze/"challenge" (choose your euphemism!) result in people more frequently and thus more deeply thinking about the nature of work, why we do jobs, what social good there is in such work, what personal good there is.
You ever read Mike Rose's The Mind at Work?
I haven't read it, but I am starting A Frolic of His Own thanks to you and BDR.
Excellent!
If you like it, I suggest putting his mid-70s era novel, JR, next in line.
Really glad you wrote this comment, because BDR recommended the same thing, only I read it as "you should really read [A Frolic of His Own], JR" instead of "you should really read JR." This illuminates so much.
Most everyone has to warm up to Gaddis's style. You will know a cruel person as he will recommend The Recognitions as the place to start. The Recognitions is amazing but it's also disorienting and requires a real willingess to suffer confusion and a feeling of feeblemindedness. That density of ideas and difficulty-through-lack-of-punctuation etc. is pretty well represented in JR so while JR is possibly the funniest Gaddis novel, it's not the easiest to read.
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